I was down with the flu for a while. I started going to work on 1/17/13. I went to a dance party at the OKC swing dance club on 1/19/13. We were supposed to dance an exhibition dance (Tango) there. We danced to "Sin Rumbo" by Otros Aires. It was after some break from dancing, so I am really hoping I did not show it in my dance.
Sometimes we do dance Tango for show. Most of the time we do not completely choreograph the dance, though. We do use some familiar patterns here and there to the music, but we also hope to keep some spontaneous fun in the dance.
In such settings, I am reminded that partner dance is similar to martial arts. Martial artists train and repeat basic moves. They learn what kind of moves can be applied in a particular situation. But what really counts for Martial artists is being able to use the move in the heat of combat, or whenever it is needed. It is the moment of truth.
Likewise, for partner dancers what really counts is being able to really dance without previous choreography. To do that, it is essential to develop a sense or hunch for the dance, rather than memorizing a bunch of patterns. As a leader, I lead moves. It is important and is my responsibility. The lead should be accurate, unmistakable and comfortable, so she can follow and enjoy the dance. Equally important is the ability to notice immediately when she is not following as you intended, the ability to sense "something is not right", and the ability to change the move on the spot. This immediate response is something of an art, and the sense can become dull or get rusty if I have not been dancing for a while. It is like in many other sports or like playing a musical instrument.
When you take some time off, there may be signs of the break. For example, in swing dance in which partners can be separated, mis-judging the distance between the two is a telltale sign. You reach out your hand, and her hand is not there....missed by a few inches. It may take some dances to re-calibrate it.
I'll conclude this entry, which has become somewhat idle talk, with a tip for Argentine Tango.
The swimming pool-walk exercise. Leaders. If you have hard time getting the feel of the chest-led Argentine Tango walk, try walking in a swimming pool. The pool should not be too deep or too shallow. You submerge yourself about neck's depth, and walk forward. Try to walk fast. You need to lead yourself with your chest. Just sticking your leg forward won't work. That is the feel you can use to lead your follower with your chest on the Tango floor.
